So, he proposed to you and you accepted. What’s next? You must be aware that most men, after they have proposed, take a laid back position and expect the woman to go ahead with the planning.
Now that you have been given “control” over the “W” Day, what should you be thinking next? Well, most women actually don’t start thinking about their wedding the day after they’ve been proposed. If you’re like me, and I like to think that I am not that different from other brides-to-be, I started dreaming about my wedding day long ago (hmm… walking down the aisle with my handsome prince). Well, now that the time has arrived, you are ready to make those dreams come true!
So, what should you consider? Put things in perspective. Here’s how:
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Make a list of what you would like for your wedding (don’t restrain yourself, go all the way).
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If you have attended weddings before, think of what you liked and what you didn’t like.
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Think of what people around you expect for your wedding. Specifically, think of what your fiancé, your parents, and your in-laws would like to see.
Once you have thought about the above, figure a way to make everyone happy. Make sure not to forget yourself along the way though.
Oops, one last thing, there’s also the money issue. As you can see, this is where reality hits! After reading this, you must realize that you need some help. I, therefore, strongly suggest that you come back for more advice. Until then, keep dreaming!
P.S. For those who are already married, feel free to join in the chatter.
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